Constructive Criticism leads to Harmony
While some may thrive off of constructive criticism, I do not. Having someone tell you what you need to be working on is never easy to hear, even if you know it's coming from a place of love. So when my sweet boyfriend offered me some, I was initially hesitant and standoffish. I was quick to frustration and wanted to defend my attitudes and behavior. As I listened to what he had to say, I realized there was some validity to his words. What he was saying wasn't wrong, and he was doing so in a kind manner. Though I hated that I had behaved in such a way to warrant his comments, I appreciated his confrontation. It brought us closer together. I realized what changes I needed to make in my life in order to fix some of the struggles I was facing. Isn't it amazing how having such an open and honest conversation can bring a new sense of closeness? I feel as if he and I understand each other in a way we didn't before. If you're reading this, I encourage you to be open to the constructive criticism people bring to you. If we all just take the time to listen and process what others are saying before we speak, we can get to a positive place that brings harmony. I am so thankful for my boyfriend's kindness and gentleness. I hope that you too can experience such a thing like I did.